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23 years old. Pursuing Public Policy and Global Affairs in School Of Social Sciences at Nanyang Technological University. Thank you for the taking the time to visit and read some of my posts. I hope that you will be able to take away some insights and perspectives on various topics discussed within my space at the end of the day. I will continue to pen down my thoughts as it has always been my pleasure to do so. Any feedback are warmly welcome and can be reached me through the contact form.

Monday, March 16, 2015

7 Text Messages Your Guy Will Love To Receive



Having a hectic schedule ahead for the week, thus not being able to hang out with your loved one too often? One can always turn to text messages to communicate or contact your loved one, so as not to miss each other too dearly. Through this, you can also brighten up or motivate each other’s day! If you feel that you are running out of ideas on how to brighten up your guy’s day using text messages. Do not stress over it, I will be helping you by giving a little inspiration! These text messages will be likely to make your guy feel happy and blessed as well as feeling appreciated by you. You might also be the reason behind his motivation and positive outlook for the day or week just because of one of these text messages! 

1.          “I miss you”

Very often, we text people to express how much we miss them – friends and families – serving as a reminder to them that they are remembered. It’s perfectly normal to send this text a few times within a day, as it will make the other party feel cherished by you. Although it is a simple and sweet text, it holds significant meaning! If you are only beginning to see the guy more often, hold back a little! As he might feel rushed, and this forms an impression that you’re rather clingy. Do not worry so much, if you’re a committed couple as it shows your love for him.


2.          “You always have your ways to make me feel happy”

If you do feel blessed and happy when you’re with your guy, do let him know how he has managed to achieve it! This will serve as a direction for him as well as greater motivation to thrive for the relationship. It is always good to admit what you enjoy receiving from him and it also gives him greater confidence since he knows that positive impression has been made so far! 

3.          “I had a great time spent with you”

It is important to show that you enjoyed the moments spent with him. As it reassures him that his company is important and has lightened up your mood for the day! If your relationship is new, this can also encourage him to invite you out for another date. It also does not matter if you’re together for years because it will remain as an important form of reassurance to both parties forever. This can help to create a healthy relationship! 

4.          “You’re so attractive”

You can admit that which part of his physical appearance has attracted you! Although, it is usually taught that what’s inside is much more important, it is certainly good to let your guy know that a certain feature of his has captured or melted your heart. As who wouldn’t love to receive compliments? This will certainly make his day! Girls will also love to receive them too!

5.          “You compliment my life”

If you find that your guy has certain traits that compliment your life, let him know about it! If the both of you are a new couple, he will certainly be more than happy to know that you find him suitable for you. On one hand, it gives him confidence! On the other hand, he knows that you are thinking about him as well as for the future! He will be extremely glad for it!

6.          “I can’t wait for the next outing with you”

Let him know how much you love being with him. As he will be informed that you enjoy his company as well as how good you think of him! In return, he will certainly enjoy the time spent with you in the next outing better. He will also feel more relaxed if the both of you are in the beginning phases of a new relationship. In short, being expressive about your likes or dislikes can forge a stronger relationship between the two of you. 

7.          “I need you”

Telling your guy how much you need him at one moment of your life can make him feel that how important he is to you. However, if the both of you only started the relationship recently, try not to express your current needs using the word “need”. As it may make your guy feel pressured. Find other ways to hint him that you need him now and he will put in the effort to ensure that you’re in his safe arms. Conversely, in a devoted relationship – this will strengthen the bond between you and him as well as brighten up his day!


Tuesday, March 10, 2015

10 Subtle Signs A Guy Has Feelings For You




If you have a hard time in determining whether your friend has interests in you, these 10 subtle signs might help you. I admit, it is not that easy to tell sometimes, but with extra attention paid the next time you are with him – you should have an answer. The signs alone may not be true at every situation, so try to put all of these signs together and discover the magic! This list may not be exhaustive, and of course, there are many more!


1.          He texts you when he is out with friends or family


One of the more common signs is finding the time and effort to type you sincere and cute messages to entertain you. This indicates a high chance he has feelings for you, but it may also means that he is bored and needs someone to chat with. Even if it’s the latter case, he has thought of you and texted you while he’s out. Also, if he tries to keep the conversation with you alive for quite some time … then you should be clear that he may have something for you. 

2.          He remembers almost all of your preferences and interests



It is uncommon for a guy to remember a woman’s preference and interests. The reason is that majority of the guys do not take notice of events or happenings not of their interests. This can make a woman so mad at times, but hey, that’s just us. So, be extremely delighted and blessed if a guy does it so to make you feel important and wanted.

3.          He gets nervous



If he is able to communicate normally with everyone, but he acts weirdly with you … do not worry! That happens most of the time when people meet their crushes right? If he gets only nervous with you, it means he has something for you. A guy will not simply be nervous with a girl he has no feelings for! Look out if he acts differently only with you, before jumping to a conclusion that condemns him to be weird. As he is trying his best to give the best impression!

4.          He gets a little touchy with you


In a date, if you find him trying to slightly lay his hand on or over your shoulder occasionally, it is a strong indication that he wants to be close with you.

In a group outing, if he tries to stay near to you as well as taking notices and responding to your needs among everyone quickly … then he certainly likes you more than just a friend.

5.          The eye contact he gives


Eye contact is an important and easiest way to figure out whether someone has feelings for you. Ever experienced an eye contact that seemed full of sincerity and genuinity? If you did feel it before, believe and listen to your heart’s say! There is a high possibility that the guy likes you and wants you to know it. 

6.          He asks you out



When a guy asks you out for a date, it is just one of his many ways to get to know you better as a person. It is also one of the many strong signs that he has feelings for you. He wants to test it out with you! Surely, social media platforms can serve this purpose too, but what beats communicating face-to-face as it is so much more sincere and convenient! Only if you feel comfortable with him, then shall you accept his invitation. 


7.          He gets jealous over your other guy friends


If you find a guy getting jealous easily over other guy friends you have been hanging out or chatting with, then that should be it! - He likes you. It goes the same when you really feel that he is checking out your guy friends by constantly asking questions related them. Also, if his replies looked a little different and a tinge of jealously could be felt within it … then yeah he certainly has feelings for you.

8.          He teases you slightly


Does the guy always try to pull off some jokes on you? That is one of the ways to make the outing more lively and enjoyable for both. If he keeps placing the effort to make you laugh, then he does like you. This sign alone will not help you that easily to tell whether he has feelings for you, so try compiling with the other signs and you will notice! 

9.          He opens up to you


All humans are indifferent – be it man or woman – and it is universal and known to everyone that an individual only opens up to someone important to him or her. If he talks to you about his past, current or future life, he wants to hear what you think and whether are you concerned about it. He wants you to know him better and hope that you would share back too! This will create a closer bond between you and him.

10.        He does the extra mile for you


Whether are the exams coming or an important event is coming up in your life, if a guy does something simple, may be just writing a sincere note, or special to encourage you and keeping your spirits up – you are blessed. He remembers it and he wants you to know that there is always someone you can count on in the most challenging and difficult situations.

Thursday, March 5, 2015

7 Signs you are crushing on someone



How often do you get trapped in the maze of love? Everyone was borned into this universe to feel and appreciate the beauty of our nature and surroundings. That had also made us fall in love with people whom we just know or had been around us all the while. As commonly, we would take some time before we realize or notice the beauty within people.  Situations whereby we fell so hard in love with a person whom we just know also exist, but there is nothing wrong as long as you know the reason for it. Humans are emotional species and most of the time; what becomes the pillar and provides motivation for us to fight on or pursue our dreams are our loved ones.

So what will be the 7 signs that you are crushing on someone?


1.          Finding ways to keep the conversation going  


You will crack your brain juices to figure every possible ways to keep the conversation going. This will also be the time where you find out your real creativeness. Go ahead being nonsensical and becoming other sides of yourself, and who knows the other party might find you interesting to talk to. Just a word of caution, do not deviate from your real self too much. You will understand it why when it becomes a real setting.


2.         She or he is constantly on your mind      


This is an universal indication to everyone. We all know it. Being largely distracted as a result of it, is a strong signal that you are not giving up on this feeling. And of course, you will feel really motivated and driven in this moment! (:


3.           On cloud nine when the they respond positively  


Ever experience nights whereby you can't sleep because of excitement and happiness? 


4.           You can’t take your eyes off of them 


You always take chances to secretly glance at them. Yes, you probably have a crush on them then! 


5.           You get nervous before you see them


If you tend to get nervous before meeting someone, chances are you have a crush on them. Your heart feels fluttery and there are butterflies in your stomach. However, it will be better to sort out your nervousness or anxiety, as these may be tell-tale signs to the other party that you are feeling uncomfortable with them. 


6.           You wonder what they think of you 


Being overly particular over how will that someone think about you? Then you might have a crush on them! You may want them to think that you're an interesting and fun person to be with! Also, leaving a good impression on the first date.


7.           You secretly hope that they will ask you out again


If you secretly hope that this person will ask you out, then you absolutely have a crush on them! Being in love can be a good thing if both makes the effort to keep the fire and passion going. Be sure to be a responsible lover to your crush! (: