Hello dear friends!!
Finally, I have found the time to
write up a post about my life! Hopefully what I am going to say in this post
will be of interest and will not bore you. Hahaha. Well, after a long one month
break of not posting anything, I decided not to be lazy anymore and at the same
time, I think it is time to write a sequel to one of my old blog topics. To be
honest with all of you, I feel sincerely happy and blessed that I am able to do
up this post today!
On the 14th June 2014:
Okay! Before I start to write up on
what I have intended to, I would love to take this opportunity to wish all my
dear Muslims friends a joyous Hari Raya, Selemat Hari Raya Aidilfitri! May this
special occasion bring joy to your heart, family and beloved friends!
The thing that I am going to talk about
can be said to hold the greatest significance and of high importance in my
life. Never have I thought that I would made this decision. I believe some of
you may already have an idea on what I am going to share today. Hmm, I guess I
should not keep everyone in suspense anymore. So the topic that I wish to write a
sequel on it is “Two and a Final one” which dated all the way back to eight
months ago.
With that, I shall start my writing or
penning down my thoughts into this post. I shall name the title of this post to
be, “The special person in my life”. During the period of April to June, I think I have left out many details which I think my friends should know. So here it goes! :D
Everything started on the 1st
of April 2014. Yes my friends, I know it’s the April Fools’ Day but rest assured,
I am not kidding with you in here. Hahaha, I was also amazed and astonished to
find out that day was the first time me and her conversed via messages. As some of
you, perhaps my close friends were probably aware on how reluctant was I to enter a
relationship because of academic reasons, as it requires continuous commitment
and effort to maintain and sustain a healthy relationship. However, at the same
time, I would not deny that I was on a look-out for a partner. I am always really
keen on knowing and meeting new people in my life, but was never keen on getting
into a relationship. I would admit that I am someone who can be rather
sentimental and really cautious when it comes to love matters. As I am aware of the stakes and consequences that were involved in a relationship, it isn’t a game whereby you can take feelings of people for granted and mistreat the trust given
wholeheartedly by the person to you.
Deep down my heart, I know some of the
concerns that you may have for me may be, “From April till July is only a short
period of time … and for someone to fully understand the other party will
certainly require a much longer period of time”. I do share the similar concern
with you because it is perfectly logical, as you will need more time to understand someone in most cases. However, there will always be exceptions in life and I don't know if I am in the sphere of exceptions. Nonetheless, I believe that we have to seize our
own opportunities and take risks when necessary at some point in our lives. That’s just life. Nothing is going to have it in your way, unless you make the effort to go for it first. And honestly, I am still perplexed with how my heart has managed to convince me go for it because it
is rare to confess and commit to someone whom you only have knew for two and a half months.
This brings me to my next point, before my trip to Denmark, my thoughts were, “I shall decide my next step after
the trip”. This explained why I said I really hope that I could write a sequel
to one of my old blog topics once I return back to Singapore. Indeed how
blissful I am feeling right now because I am actually penning down my thoughts on
this matter. :D
Maybe something about myself? Hahaha. I live my life with the principle to
commit fully once I have given my word, because that is what makes you as a
credible and responsible individual. Based on this principle, I have never once
thought of trying out a relationship, but only commit fully once certain. I know It
may be foolish to have this belief or thinking in a relationship but that would
be just my most sincere and best way of sustaining a healthy relationship with my partner. And of course, there are many
ways to uphold a healthy relationship but so long you have chosen one that
makes you live a fulfilling and comfortable life, that’s that.
I also thank fate for bringing
the two of us together, and I am glad that our efforts have brought us here today. Before I end off, I would have some mushy words to my special girl. I hope you guys won't mind and can bear with it. Hahaha :P
Dear Kit Yee,
I want you to know that I will always be there for you so long my health does not forbid me to ... and I promise to love you for who you are and to work hard for our future. I may have known you for only three months but I believe that quality beats quantity. The quality times we had had indeed instilled both strong trust and faith in the both of us. I, hereby give you my word, to love you and to take good care of you forever ... ...
Happy 1st Month Anniversary.
Happy 1st Month Anniversary.
With Love,
Ben
Okay, sorry for the mushy words! :P I shall stop there. Heh! :D Last but not least, one last final shout out to all my Muslim friends, SELAMAT HARI RAYA! Enjoy your festive day, friends!